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Grudges, gossip and anxiety

  A few weeks ago I was speaking in a training workshop for emotion regulating skills. One of the participants anxiously asked what I thought about gossiping, and a lively discussion started. All the group members agreed that they never felt good about gossiping, and that gossiping could often backfire; they themselves could easily become [...]

Giving advice to someone with anxiety

As someone who makes my livelihood helping folks clarify issues, and often giving advice, I have been reminded recently that this is not always effective in my personal life!  I got a reaction the other day from my partner that reminded me to examine my approach here. I was basically told to ‘back off’ when [...]